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7 Signs Your Dog Is Overstimulated During Play

And how to help them relax.

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If you’ve ever watched your dog go from goofy playtime to absolutely unhinged in two seconds, you’re not imagining it. Dogs can get overstimulated during play, and when that happens, their excitement tips into a state where they’re no longer thinking clearly. 

As Rhea Northcut, certified professional dog trainer and resident separation anxiety expert at Wiggle Butt Academy, explains, “Overstimulated would mean that a dog's amygdala is activated — that fight-or-flight function.” Once dogs hit that point, they can lose some control over their behavior, making them more likely to overreact, nip too hard, or spin into those wild zoomies

The threshold of overstimulation can really vary from dog to dog — some people (and some dogs) have higher or lower tolerances for stimulation.

“For example, some people love going to clubs, while others truly hate it—the high volume of people in one space, the loud music, the smells, the lights—it can all be too much for some,” Northcut explains. “It’s the same for dogs— we tend to see them become overstimulated when too much is going on at once (like too close to a busy road or in an area with a lot of people, dogs, or noise).”

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The good news is that, when playing with your pup, there are early signs of overstimulation that you can watch out for, and stepping in before your dog reaches that point can help keep play safe and fun.

7 signs your dog is overstimulated while playing

There are a lot of different signs you can look out for to figure out if your dog is getting a little too worked up during playtime. Some of these behaviors look like classic “hyper” play, while others are subtle shifts that tell you your pup is inching toward their limit.

According to Northcut, knowing how to spot these early changes is key to preventing play from tipping into chaos.

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They start missing the toy and catching your hands instead.

This is an early, subtle indicator that a dog’s arousal is rising too high. “During play, you might see an overstimulated dog start to miss toys and catch hands,” Northcut says. “Sometimes, it can be because of handler pressure — owners who really want their dog to engage might lightheartedly shove at their dog — which can force a dog into an interaction they didn’t want to be involved in.”

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The zoomies kick in — not from joy, but from displacement.

While they may seem joyful, zoomies aren’t always “happy energy.” “You might see zoomies, which we know now is not just a behavior they do when excited but also as a displacement or avoidance behavior,” says Northcut. 

Zoomies alone aren’t a problem, but when they happen alongside other frantic behaviors, it can be a sign that your dog is no longer in a playful headspace. Northcut notes that what looks silly on the surface can actually be your dog trying to cope with overwhelming stimulation.

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There is rough mouthing or “sharking” hands involved.

Dogs can lose precision when their amygdala is activated. “You might see… sharking hands when they aren't in the right state of mind to aim their mouths,” Northcut says.

When Northcut mentions dogs “sharking” hands, she’s referring to the frantic, imprecise mouthing that happens when a dog is so overexcited that they start snapping at hands instead of toys. This happens not out of aggression, but because their brain is moving faster than their self-control.

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They are mounting or humping in the middle of play.

Mounting or humping during play is often misunderstood as dominance, but Northcut says it’s actually a common sign that your dog is overwhelmed. “Mounting or humping is one of the behaviors that can happen when a dog is overstimulated,” she explains.

When a dog’s arousal level gets too high, their body may default to this displacement behavior as a way to cope with overwhelming excitement or stress.

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They start offering displacement behaviors.

Another sign of overstimulation is when a dog suddenly starts offering displacement behaviors like sniffing the ground, looking away, or pausing mid-play. These are canine coping mechanisms that show things are becoming “too much.” As Northcut explains, “other displacement behaviors like looking away, sniffing the ground, etc.” can signal that a dog is overwhelmed. 

She notes that dogs respond differently when hyperactive. “Each dog and breed is different,” Northcut adds. “Some dogs get worked up and act out versus others who shut down and stop interacting.”

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The play becomes too intense — tug, fetch, or chase escalates quickly.

Play styles like tug, fetch, or chase can quickly tip a dog into overdrive because they trigger big dopamine spikes.

“Generally, the types of play that release dopamine are more likely to cause overstimulation—fetch, tug, chase, etc.,” Northcut says. “That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t engage in these behaviors. It just means we need to be mindful of our expectations.”

They lose the ability to stop themselves.

Some dogs will just keep chasing, biting, or demanding play without a pause. “Some breeds were made for high-arousal situations, but they can also very easily get worked up,” Northcut says. “It’s like a sports car versus a sedan — if you buy a Lamborghini, you need to know how to drive it.” These types of breeds include Belgian Malinois, Border Collies, and German Shepherds.

How to help you’re dog when they’re overstimulated

If you notice any of these behaviors popping up, it’s your cue to step in gently and bring your dog back down to a calmer state. Northcut emphasizes that this behavior manageable as long as you interrupt it early.

Here are some trainer-approved ways to help your dog reset.

Use food to interrupt and calm their brain.

This is a great technique because it’s immediate, effective, and safe, too. “Using food is a perfectly fine way of de-escalating a dog who is in a high arousal state,” Northcut says. “Throwing food on the ground or in the grass activates sniffing and seeking and tells the brain it is safe and not time to chase and bite.”

Try up-down stimulation games to teach self-regulation 

This is one of Northcut’s favorite methods. “We fetch, fetch, fetch, and then eat treats out of the grass, then more fetch or tug, always finishing with something low arousal,” Northcut says. “The food in the grass is a nice way of bringing the brain down out of that activated arousal state.”

Add quick “pause behaviors” between play rounds.

This practice builds impulse control without killing the fun. “I like to ask a dog for easy behaviors to pause play and have them do a well-known behavior before resuming,” Northcut says. “This behavior needs to be very easy and quick so they can quickly get back to play.”

You want to reinforce the importance of “drop it” and “take it.” “These are ways of starting and stopping the behavior so they aren’t blindly starting the game themselves,” Northcut explains.

Offer low-arousal, cool-down activities after intense play.

After high-energy play, giving your dog low-arousal activities can help their nervous system reset. “Food in the grass and bones or toys to chew on are my go-to for cool-down time,” Northcut says.

For dogs who need a longer wind-down, she recommends “food-stuffed, frozen marrow bones or toys — Kongs, Toppls, bully sticks, smoked or re-stuffed marrow bones,” all of which encourage calm, focused chewing.

Here’s what you need to remember.

Overstimulation isn’t bad behavior, it’s just your dog’s nervous system getting overwhelmed. When you know what to look for, you can step in before play shifts from fun to frantic. Pay attention to patterns, interrupt arousal early, and offer plenty of enrichment and cool-down activities to help your dog reset. 

Remember that a little awareness goes a long way. When you learn your dog’s unique signs of overstimulation, you can keep play safe, build better communication, and teach them the skills they need to enjoy high-energy fun without crossing that threshold.

Daley Quinn

Daley Quinn

Daley is a longtime journalist and copywriter based in New York City. Her work has appeared in publications including New York Magazine, Real Simple, TODAY, Well + Good, and many more. Daley is the proud mom to her incredibly sweet n' small two-year-old Havanese puppy, Briar Rose.