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FYI, Pets Are Incredibly Good For Your Mental Health

This Mental Health Awareness Month, experts share the science-backed ways our pets offer us emotional support.

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Illustration: Valentin Pujadas

When writer and brand consultant Jayme Cyk found herself in a dark place during the pandemic, it was her dog, Kanushi, who ended up being the most effective form of solace. “I’ve struggled with my mental health for a long time, but over the pandemic my eating disorder and the depression that followed intensified,” Cyk says. Throughout her darkest and loneliest days, Kanushi was always by her side. “So often, for me at least, your significant other or family or friends don’t know what to say when you’re in this state, but Kanushi doesn’t have to say anything at all. His furry body closely lined against mine, and his smell, which I liken to a newborn baby scent, helps to pull me out of the dark place I’m in.”

And there is growing evidence to support Cyk’s experience. A number of studies have shown that interactions with animals increase endorphins, oxytocin, prolactin, and dopamine, says Sue Gilberti, co-founder and VP of Pet Partners of Central New York, a volunteer organization that brings pets to visit schools, nursing homes, and hospitals. “These are the hormones associated with blood pressure regulations, pain relief, stress relief, and joy,” she adds.

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Why are pets so good for our mental health?

There are number of theories as to why pets have such a positive impact. Dr. Leanne Nieforth Bomkamp, an assistant professor at Purdue University who worked at the school’s Organization for Human-Animal Interaction Research and Education (OHAIRE), points to attachment theory, which suggests that the bond we form with animals provides companionship and non-judgmental social support. “As non-judgmental and positive social partners, pets decrease our stress levels and increase our joy,” Dr. Bomkamp says. Anyone who has returned home after an awful day to be greeted by their dog, tail wagging and thrilled to see them, can attest to that.

That reaction is central to the work that Pet Partners does. “No matter what kind of day someone is having, when they interact with one of our pets their whole demeanor changes, because that pet is approaching them with unconditional acceptance,” says Gilberti. Even before she pivoted to working with animals full-time, Gilberti was keenly aware of their potential for healing. As a teacher at a public school in Syracuse, the principal would often ask her to bring her dog in when a student was having a particularly challenging time. “Just being with the dog for 10 minutes would completely relax the student so that they could better listen to the school psychologist working with them,” she adds.

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In their work at OHAIRE, researchers have seen psychological and physiological changes in stress and anxiety with pets and military veterans with PTSD, people with physical disabilities, and children with autism. For veterans with PTSD, a service dog was correlated with 30 percent lower depression, 21 percent greater ability to participate in social activities, and an overall dip in the stress hormone cortisol. For those with physical disabilities, a trained service dog led to 10 percent better emotional functioning and 16 percent greater functioning at work or school. And for children with autism, classroom-based animal-assisted intervention resulted in a 54 percent increase in social behaviors (something they struggle with) and a 43 percent reduction in physiological indicators of anxious activation.

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During the pandemic, pets took on an even more urgent role in people’s lives. As our networks dwindled amidst social distancing and general uncertainty, pets became a newly important source of social support, and continue to be today now that it is behind us. “Pets offered a complementary support to the virtual human-to-human social support that many people were forced to turn to,” Dr. Bomkamp says. “Additionally, the social support provided by pets may have encouraged individuals to stay active and maintain a consistent routine, thus positively influencing both physical and mental health.” There is also, of course, the direct touch from pets that has its own significantly stress buffering effects.

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While there is the greatest amount of research around dogs and horses, they are not the only animals who can serve an emotionally supportive purpose. Sarah Miers, an analyst for the federal government based in Rockville, Maryland, points to the healing benefits of her cat. “I inherited my mom’s cat when she passed away, and he has really helped me with my grief,” Miers says. “I have always had cats and they have helped me live through anxiety and depression, but this experience with my mom’s cat has been such an unexpected blessing.”

Holly Siegel, a Brooklyn-based senior director of copy and creative, would agree. “I 100 percent have an emotional support cat,” Siegel says. “My partner is not a big cuddler, and my therapist is over Zoom; Avery has been with me for almost 20 years — longer than either of them. She has literally licked tears from my cheeks.”

Pet Partners is the only national organization that registers nine different species as emotional support animals: dogs, cats, rats, horses, llamas/ alpacas, birds, potbellied pigs, guinea pigs, and rabbits. “The species that are capable of being a registered therapy pet all have recognizable stress signals that a handler can react to,” Gilberti explains. At a time when everything is seemingly dubbed self-care, pet care actually earns the label. It just should not, says Dr. Bomkamp, be a replacement for a traditional, evidence-based treatment modality, like therapy. It seems the more help we have, the better. 

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Fiorella Valdesolo

Fiorella Valdesolo is a writer, editor, brand and creative consultant. She’s worked with New York, Elle, The Wall Street Journal, T, Glamour, Vogue, Women's Health, Nylon, Style.com, Net-a-Porter, and Domino, among others. She is the cofounder and editor-in-chief of the independent food magazine Gather Journal and the author of Pretty: The Nylon Book of Beauty. She lives in Brooklyn with her partner Nate and daughter Aluna. Her dream interview remains Stevie Nicks.